Dyslexic Diaries

dys·lex·i·a /dəsˈleksēə/

  1. a general term for disorders that involve difficulty in learning to read or interpret words, letters, and other symbols, but that do not affect general intelligence.

Today I had to read a chapter in my textbook. The chapter is 44 pages. 44. Just let that sink in. That’s a lot of pages. For any student that is a big chunk but for this student its an act of congress. I am not sure why I am sharing this but I hope it may bring inspiration and perseverance for those who are dyslexic.

Y’all I used to hate reading. Reading in groups or alone. Reading wasn’t something I’d choose todo. I mean I was only grasping Junie B. Jones when I was in forth grade. But then in 8th grade I began to read the Percy Jackson Series and I was hooked. More about that later.

Now reading for fun still takes a lot of energy however reading a textbook is like a hiit workout or something. Today I am going to share a few things I do to successfully read my textbook.

  1. When my chapters are 30+ pages I split it up. 15 pages one day and 15 the next. This makes the task a little more attainable. I may even split it into three days of 10 pages. Whatever I feel can help me be successful.
  2. I use a half sheet of paper to cover text that I haven’t gotten to yet. This helps me not get overwhelmed by everything I have to read on the page.
  3. Sometimes I read aloud. Personally reading out load is harder because I have a pronounce words correctly and it takes the wind out of me. However, I find that if I read in my head I can start to fake read aka looking at words but dreaming. So inevitably reading out load helps me process better.

In sharing these tips my goal is to authentically show what reading can feel like as someone who’s dyslexic, give tips on how to conquer reading a textbook and let other dyslexics out there know your not alone.

Stay @Home Work Strategies

Wrote this post for my dad’s business. I hope you can find this helpful as well as encouraging. If you want to check out Warren Wandling click HERE.

With the new reality of the whole family working at home and the fact that I love to talk and share with those around me, I knew we were going to need to  put some parameters in place. If not for their sanity – to keep me in line.

Last summer I read 5 Gears by Jeremie Kubicek and Steve Cockram. This book helped me realize the importance of breaks, getting into the zone and the ease of communication. They wrote this strategy based off of the 5 gears in a manual car. While I may like driving an automatic,  in life it’s important to know how to shift work time and activities throughout your day.

To increase productivity and clearer communication in our new home office situation: 

  1. We each get a poster that says Gear 5, Focus Mode and Gear 4, Task Mode. If Gear 5 is posted in a workplace, that means come back later, I’m in the zone.  With the Gear 4, others are invited to come into the room while working.
  2. Each person has picked a special work space in house
  3. Lunch time is planned
  4. Everyone uses this simple communication tool
  5. We choose laughter over fear.

Being at home doesn’t mean you can’t have a schedule and it doesn’t mean there has to be chaos. While it will take time to navigate a new normal we can use these strategies to ease us into this current situation.

No matter the age of your family you can utilize these techniques. If you have young or school aged kids, make a schedule that includes 1 or more chores, reading, using a math app. Be sure to include activities kids enjoy. This format can even be applied for you as a business man or woman. Make a schedule for yourself so that you can be productive and treat these work days 9-5, just as if you were going into the office.

Lastly, make your space enjoyable to work.

Let’s break through the odds and not let location stop productivity.

To get the Gear 5 and Gear 4 poster go over to my shop page where you can download them from Etsy.

Taking Your Time Back

Do your weeks feel hectic? Do you find that you never have time to breathe? Are you up until the wee hours of the morning finishing assignments? You have come to the right place. I have three tips on how to organize your planner for a successful workday. Not only will your planner be pretty, you will feel a sense of completion and maximize the time God has given you.

Before we begin, I use a Passion Planner. I like this planner because it allows me to account for every hour of my day and has many places for drawings and notes. Now grab your free passion planner printout here and we will begin.

COLOR

Each class, activity, work, social engagement and bible study has its own color. This allows me to see how much time I am investing into each activity. In my planner I draw in the time I am doing each activity. For example: I have class from 4:30-7, so I mark that block of time out for class.

I even plan specifically when I will be doing my homework. This sets visual boundaries and keeps me accountable for my time.

Feeling like you are doing homework or work projects in every “leftover” second of the day isn’t fun. This is why I have started to treat my workdays as 7am-5pm much like a professional business day. By deciding when my work time will be I have room for free time, which I also plan.

Color in action

As you see in my example, work time. exercise time and even social events. Some weeks I plan in watching the bachelor with my friends. Using assorted colors allows you to see where you are spending your time and it’s pretty.

 TASKS

Write down all the tasks you want to accomplish for each area, using the pre-determined color. Here I used seaweed green for one of my classes. Below I have written down all the tasks for the class I’d like to complete this week. When you have identified everything you want to complete, it will make your homework time smoother. These tasks are all the things you want to complete during a week.

snapshot of my weekly agenda

Separately, I suggest getting a small notebook or using notes on your phone to create a checklist of the tasks you must complete for the day.  The success you will feel from completing the tasks is so refreshing. Your energy will also be maximized because you have a daily goal you are working towards.

TIME

So that I am on top of my schedule, instead of my schedule being on top of me, I sit down on Sundays and plan out the upcoming week. Of Course, you can choose the day that suits you best to plan. I like Sunday because it feels like a breath of fresh air or a restart as I step into a new week. Whichever day you choose be consistent so you can stay in control of your schedule. The best part is – it only takes about 15 minutes and I feel way more confident going into the week.

So why color code and write out all these tasks? 

You will feel more peace going into your week. You will notice you procrastinate less. You will be satisfied with the work you complete. So this week I challenge you to down load the passion planner or purchase your planner of choice, get some markers or fancy pens, and give your self 15 minutes.

P.S. If you like an online calendar these same principles apply to you as well.

Proverbs 16:3 MSG

Put God in charge of your work, then what you’ve planned will take place.

Life Lessons from Painting

This semester I have decided to take a painting class. I wasn’t quite sure what to expect but we have already turned in two paintings. I’m certainly no Picasso however by the end of this class maybe I’ll be an apprentice level.

Both projects are gray scale meaning we only used black and white paints and had to mix them to create different shades of gray.

Now being the novice artist I am, I was struggling to draw each painting before I began. Then mixing the paints to make the different shades gray. And painting with a pallet knife for the first painting was a struggle. I now know why we are taught to color inside the lines in kindergarten; So that painting with a pallet knife will be easier or so that we learn to follow directions. I digress. Anyway

…as I was going about my project I realized there are 3 life lessons we can gather from a simple painting:

  1. Don’t be afraid of the outcome, just go for it!                                                                          If life is the canvas and we just sit around and don’t do anything we will be left with a blank canvas stained with regret of not trying. Fear should be a motivator not a reason to shut down. If its not scary it probably ain’t worth it. One must climb the mountain of success, not wish it away but accomplish it.
  2. Sometimes we need help along the way and thats ok.                                                  Novice or expert we all need a little guidance along the journey of life. As humans we were created to rely on each other. Doing life together is important. The mountain can get scary with roadblocks and other such things we do not expect. Having people in our lives that can build us up, teach us and do life with us is important.
  3. Someone is always going to critique your work.                                                           Take what others say with a grain of salt. You may learn a new skill or find out  something you has previously missed before. However not every critique is positive and we need to learn how to move forward and not let others keep us down. There is only one critic that we should please: Jesus.

What can we conclude from this painting class?

That it is our job to try new things, learn and explore. If we don’t pick up the paint brush we will never know what the out come will be. Just go for it! Years from now it will be a memory shared around the dinner table.

Brain Games or Action Steps

We are a week and a half into the new year. Everyone is high on motivation and getting those New Year resolutions completed. For many of us those resolutions are just empty words we cling to hoping that one day we will be: healthier, spiritually stronger or spending more time doing the things we love. STOP CLINGING TO WHAT COULD BE AND START DOING WHAT IT TAKES TO GET THERE.

Today I am going to share how I am taking control of my 2018 instead of watching it go by hoping, wishing and dreaming for a different outcome.

Dream Board in the Making…

  1. I got my butt off the couch and got some paper. I then wrote down all I wanted to accomplish this year under the different categories: health, hobbies, spiritual, school, work and financial.
  2. I then went to my local craft store and bought a poster board.
  3. Once I arrived back home I compiled all the craft supplies I owned and all the magazines I could find.
  4. You know what comes next…
  5. With my goals set and my crafting supplies ready I began to look through the magazines for pictures that were inspiring or represented what I plan to achieve.
  6. After 7 hours of looking, cutting and glueing I felt inspired for the year to come.
  7. Its not enough to just make the poster, hang it up where you will see it everyday inspiring you to make real change

Another fun way to get on track of your dreams and goals is to make lists. Not the kinda list that sits on your desk hoping to be acknowledged, a living list.

As a college student winter break can be exciting having a whole month to get stuff done or it can feel like a drag once you hit week 3. This year for break instead of wishing I would read a book, paint or get a coffee with friends I made a list of everything I wanted to get done this break. What made this list successful…

  • I wrote down everything I wanted to do
  • I then made a detailed chart of how it would look to accomplish each task.

For example one of my goals this break was to read. I expanded this in my chart by explaining that I would like to read 1 1/2 books this break. By expanding what reading looked like for me I then knew what I needed todo to accomplish this goal. Other goals my be a project coming this spring semester and planing how to get  it done without the panicked procrastination. Or maybe starting that hobby you “wish” you did. Whatever the goal it is possible. Just take baby steps.

If I’ve learned anything its that setting the timer for 30 minutes and then starting any task you want to achieve, time will go by in a jiffy. So don’t get to January 31st wondering what happen to the New Years resolution, make a dream board, make a list and then go achieve it.